Bipasha Basu: “We all have the right to stand by our self respect”
Varsha Balakrishnan
Mar 10, 2017, 02.11PM IST
Bong Beauty Bipasha Basu doesn't believe in standing down and taking the heat!
Bipasha, who was recently in the news for her "unprofessional" behavior at an appearance she was scheduled to make in London, decided to take the matter into her own hands and set the record straight.
London based designers Lubna and Uzma Rafiq alleged that Bipasha Basu, who was supposed to be their showstopper kept them waiting and also set forward some demands in front of them.
In a Facebook post by Ronita Lekhi, one of the organizers of the show alleged that Bipasha wanted her husband to fly out of London and asked to extend the stay by 5 days. She refused to come to the show if the demands weren't met. While Bipasha stayed silent and tweeted cryptically throughout the fiasco, she decided to draft her response in an open letter.
The letter reads:
"While a lot has been said about my association with the recent London Fashion Show, I feel that I need to speak my mind at this juncture.I do believe that it is important to be true to yourself and your principles.
I have always fought my own battles, and though I don't choose to fall to their level ,I need to set the record straight. While a few hiccups are bound to happen in our line of work, I have never been privy to such baseless and cheap name slandering.
Initially I was amused that the defaulters are playing the victim card and making up ridiculous stories to save their back and putting me in the wrong but now I'm shocked that certain segments of the media too have supported them and people are wrongly using social media as a weapon of mass attack. Also to be noted that these are first time producers in london.
To set the record straight - The deal was made with a set of agreed conditions. However, when I landed there for the project as planned, I realised that the organizers hadn't honored their end of the bargain. Inspite of confirming with my manager that they had.
I had agreed to travel on a hospitality deal but never was I treated so badly .My self-respect holds the highest value and I refuse to be a victim of bullying or arm twisting. They expected me to hold true to my end of the bargain, where as they had completely defaulted at their end. Using the fact that my name had already been publicised.
Contrary to rumors, as soon as I landed in London , we made our own hotel bookings and I also immediately rebooked our own travel.Being a part of the Bollywood fraternity, I've never experienced such a callous and high-handed treatment before. So instead of creating a scene there, I chose to keep the high ground and backed off from the event.
I understand that some people were inadvertently hurt by my actions; but I believe we all have the right to stand by our self respect and choose to walk away from humiliating situations.
There are no free lunches in this world and everyone needs to be compensated for the work they do and when the terms and conditions aren't met, it is only natural and professional to opt out of the deal.
Additionally, what has been reported about my manager is uncalled for. She received some disheartening news of her family and was upset, as opposed to the ridiculous reasons being reported.
I hope this puts an end to all speculation.
While I do understand that celebrities are public figures and are constantly under scrutiny, At the same time they are soft targets for anyone to accuse and then be written about. I hope everyone makes a wiser judgement as opposed to believing just about anything that is gets written."
Bipasha, who was recently in the news for her "unprofessional" behavior at an appearance she was scheduled to make in London, decided to take the matter into her own hands and set the record straight.
London based designers Lubna and Uzma Rafiq alleged that Bipasha Basu, who was supposed to be their showstopper kept them waiting and also set forward some demands in front of them.
In a Facebook post by Ronita Lekhi, one of the organizers of the show alleged that Bipasha wanted her husband to fly out of London and asked to extend the stay by 5 days. She refused to come to the show if the demands weren't met. While Bipasha stayed silent and tweeted cryptically throughout the fiasco, she decided to draft her response in an open letter.
Hearing about a con woman talking utter rubbish about my work ethics and some section of the media giving them space too.
— Bipasha Basu (@bipsluvurself) March 6, 2017
15 years you don't last any business being unprofessional. You last because you are clear and particular and have self respect.
— Bipasha Basu (@bipsluvurself) March 6, 2017
The letter reads:
"While a lot has been said about my association with the recent London Fashion Show, I feel that I need to speak my mind at this juncture.I do believe that it is important to be true to yourself and your principles.
I have always fought my own battles, and though I don't choose to fall to their level ,I need to set the record straight. While a few hiccups are bound to happen in our line of work, I have never been privy to such baseless and cheap name slandering.
Initially I was amused that the defaulters are playing the victim card and making up ridiculous stories to save their back and putting me in the wrong but now I'm shocked that certain segments of the media too have supported them and people are wrongly using social media as a weapon of mass attack. Also to be noted that these are first time producers in london.
To set the record straight - The deal was made with a set of agreed conditions. However, when I landed there for the project as planned, I realised that the organizers hadn't honored their end of the bargain. Inspite of confirming with my manager that they had.
I had agreed to travel on a hospitality deal but never was I treated so badly .My self-respect holds the highest value and I refuse to be a victim of bullying or arm twisting. They expected me to hold true to my end of the bargain, where as they had completely defaulted at their end. Using the fact that my name had already been publicised.
Contrary to rumors, as soon as I landed in London , we made our own hotel bookings and I also immediately rebooked our own travel.Being a part of the Bollywood fraternity, I've never experienced such a callous and high-handed treatment before. So instead of creating a scene there, I chose to keep the high ground and backed off from the event.
I understand that some people were inadvertently hurt by my actions; but I believe we all have the right to stand by our self respect and choose to walk away from humiliating situations.
There are no free lunches in this world and everyone needs to be compensated for the work they do and when the terms and conditions aren't met, it is only natural and professional to opt out of the deal.
Additionally, what has been reported about my manager is uncalled for. She received some disheartening news of her family and was upset, as opposed to the ridiculous reasons being reported.
I hope this puts an end to all speculation.
While I do understand that celebrities are public figures and are constantly under scrutiny, At the same time they are soft targets for anyone to accuse and then be written about. I hope everyone makes a wiser judgement as opposed to believing just about anything that is gets written."
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